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Autism is complex and deserves our utmost understanding, care, and focus. My mission is to help families help their children become the people they envision to be. Doing so requires easy to use tools, flexible strategies, and creative solutions.
   

Welcome to ESDM Online, a resource for parents and providers eager to discover ways to help children connect, communicate, and learn. Here, you will find examples, tips, activities, the latest research findings, videos, and much more to support your goals as a parent or provider. Join the community and become part of this mission to create positive learning experiences for children.
  1. Giving children opportunities to practice their skills through play and everyday activities.
  2. Creating a welcoming, accessible and nonjudgemental space to hear about and share ideas.
  3. Helping children feel calm, safe and supported.
Together, let's nurture meaningful growth and positive experiences for every child.
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Active Ingredients for Change
 
Young children learn best when having fun. Whether it is play, bath, meal time, or another routine, each moment can involve the ESDM to help children connect, communicate, and learn. See how you can get started with the ESDM with your child or the families whom you support in an early childhood learning environment.
Quick Tip 

Find out how to use tips from the ESDM for early social-communication skills important to life-long learning, behavior, and health with your child or with families whom you support in an early childhood learning environment.

This month’s Quick Tip shows how to gently expand children's play using ESDM strategies. Discover simple ways to spark curiosity, build connections, and support children's growth through new ideas and experiences. 

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Latest News

Read monthly research about intervention outcomes for children with or at risk of autism; coaching supports for their families; and/or family-centered, culturally inclusive coaching tools to help early childhood professionals support families. Each monthly article is publicly available for free access.


This month's Latest News examines what caregivers identify as their top concerns when their children receive services in two different public systems—schools and publicly funded mental health programs.

By comparing concerns across settings, the research highlights how context influences what families worry about most and what practitioners should be prepared to address.
What They Found
  • Caregivers named a wide range of concerns, including externalizing behaviors such as aggression (61.8%), social differences (36.3%), and attention difficulties (35.4%).
  • Over half (54.7%) identified autism-specific social responsiveness challenges.
  • Concerns varied by service setting, even after accounting for child age and caregiver ethnicity.
  • For mental health settings, caregivers more often named externalizing behaviors, meaning they were more likely to talk about big, outward behaviors—things like hitting, yelling, meltdowns, or other behaviors that feel disruptive or hard to manage at home or in the community.
  • For school settings, caregivers more often named restricted and repetitive behaviors and social differences—things like getting “stuck” on certain routines or interests, having trouble joining in with peers, or finding social interactions confusing or overwhelming.
  • These differences don’t mean caregivers care about only one set of concerns; they reflect what feels most pressing in each environment and what each system tends to ask about or pay attention to.
  • Family characteristics—including child age, caregiver race/ethnicity, and number of children in the home—were associated with the types of concerns reported. 
What This Means in Practice
  • Practitioners should expect different caregiver priorities depending on the system in which they work.

  • Setting-specific intervention planning is essential: mental health providers may need to focus more on behavior regulation, while school-based teams may need to address social communication and repetitive behavior concerns.

  • A shared framework for understanding caregiver priorities can support cross-system coordination, reducing fragmentation for families navigating multiple services.

  • Using open-ended caregiver input (rather than only standardized checklists) can surface nuanced, context-dependent concerns that shape more meaningful goal-setting.

Why It Matters

Caregiver perspectives are one of the clearest windows into what feels most important for a child’s day‑to‑day well‑being, and this study shows how those priorities shift depending on the setting families are navigating. When we understand that caregivers highlight different concerns in schools than they do in mental health programs, it becomes easier to design support that feels relevant, respectful, and coordinated rather than fragmented. This matters because families often move between multiple systems, and when each system interprets caregiver concerns differently, children can end up with mismatched goals or duplicated efforts. Recognizing these patterns helps practitioners respond in ways that are more aligned with what families are actually experiencing, ultimately creating more coherent, equitable, and meaningful support for autistic children.


Click the article (above) to learn more about how caregiver priorities shift across service systems and what that means for coordinated, responsive care.

Play of the Month
 
Play not only brings smiles to children's faces but also helps them learn, feel good about themselves, and enjoy the interaction that comes from doing something with someone. Join me each month for Play of the Month to try with your child or the families whom you support in early intervention or other early childhood learning environment.

A ball invites motion, rhythm, and shared delight. This Play of the Month turns one simple object into a whole world of rolling, bouncing, pretending, and connecting—meeting children wherever they are developmentally. With just a single ball, play becomes a space for turn‑taking, storytelling, problem‑solving, and joyful back‑and‑forth moments that strengthen relationships and communication. Whether families are exploring cause‑and‑effect, building simple games together, or imagining the ball as a baby, a pet, or a scoop of ice cream, the focus stays on connection, curiosity, and co‑creation.

See below for activity ideas and learning goals linked to the ESDM Curriculum Checklist items to help you discover the play level that best suits your child or the children and families you support in early learning environments. 

Pay attention to what children like (or seem curious about) and follow their lead as long as you are a part of the action, too. Remember, the most important thing is for children to have fun doing this with you! Fun means engagement and that excites children's brains and bodies for meaningful learning to happen.

Simple Play (Sensorimotor & Exploratory)

These activities focus on cause-and-effect, sensory exploration, and basic motor skills—like banging, mouthing, or dropping—just to see what happens.

  • Roll & Watch — Sit facing the child and gently roll the ball toward them. Pause so they can watch it approach, touch it, or roll it back in their own way.

  • High Drop / Low Drop — Hold the ball up high, then low, then to the side, and let it fall. Notice the sound it makes and how it bounces (or doesn’t).

  • Ball Peek‑A‑Boo — Hide the ball under a cup, behind your back, or under a cloth. Reveal it slowly or let the child lift the cover.

  • Spin & Wiggle — Spin the ball in place on the floor or wobble it between your hands. Let the child explore the texture, weight, and movement.

  • Push‑Away Game — Place the ball near the child’s hand or foot and gently nudge it so it rolls away. Many children enjoy repeating this simple “cause → movement” loop.

  • Bounce on Different Surfaces — Try bouncing or dropping the ball on carpet, tile, a couch cushion, or a blanket. Notice how the movement changes.

  • Body Taps — Gently tap the ball on your head, shoulders, knees, or feet while naming the body part. Offer the ball for the child to tap on you or themselves.


Combination Play (Functional & Constructive)

These activities involve using materials together with intention—building, matching, or organizing.

  • Roll to a Target — Place a bowl, box, or hoop on the floor and invite the child to roll the ball toward it. Celebrate any attempt, not just “success.”

  • Ball Pathways — Use books, pillows, or cardboard to create a simple lane or tunnel. Roll the ball through and adjust the path together.

  • Color Match Roll — If you have multiple balls or colored containers, match the ball to the same‑colored bin or spot on the floor.

  • Ramp Rolling — Prop a book or tray to make a ramp. Roll the ball down and experiment with steep vs. gentle slopes.

  • Stop & Go Game — Roll the ball, then place your hand in front to stop it. Invite the child to try stopping it with their hand, foot, or a toy.

  • Ball in a Box — Offer a small box or basket and invite the child to place the ball in, dump it out, and refill. Add a second container for simple “sorting.”

  • Obstacle Roll — Place a few soft obstacles (stuffies, blocks, cushions) and roll the ball around or between them. Narrate the path (“around,” “through,” “under”).

  • Ball Train — Line up a few small containers or cups and place the ball in each one like “train cars.” Move them along the floor together.

  • Matching Movements — You roll the ball fast, slow, zig‑zag, or stop‑and‑go. Invite the child to copy the movement or create their own for you to match.


Symbolic Play (Pretend & Representational)

These activities support imagination, role play, and storytelling.

  • Baby Ball Care — Pretend the ball is a tiny baby. Wrap it in a cloth, rock it, “shhh” it to sleep, or give it a gentle ride in a box “crib.” Invite the child to help with feeding, tucking in, or carrying.

  • Ball Picnic — Set out a small blanket and pretend the ball is food (apple, orange, scoop of ice cream). Offer plates, cups, or spoons and take turns “tasting,” sharing, or serving stuffed animals.

  • Animal Ball — Turn the ball into an animal by giving it a sound or movement (a hopping bunny, a rolling turtle, a bouncing frog). Let the child choose what the ball becomes next.

  • Ball Doctor Visit — Pretend the ball is a patient. Use a spoon as a “thermometer,” a cloth as a “bandage,” or your hand as a “stethoscope.” Narrate simple needs: “The ball has a tiny cough—can you help?”

  • Ball Delivery Truck — Place the ball in a small box or container and pretend it’s a package. Drive it around the room and “deliver” it to different spots or people.

  • Ball Birthday Party — Sing “Happy Birthday” to the ball, blow pretend candles, and offer pretend cake slices. Stuffed animals or dolls can come to the party.

  • Ball Superhero — Give the ball a simple power (flying, glowing, super‑rolling). Make a tiny cape from a tissue or cloth. Create a short story about who the superhero helps.

  • Ball Pet — Treat the ball like a pet that needs gentle pats, a place to sleep, or a little walk. Offer a small box as a “bed” and narrate what the pet likes or needs.

  • Ball Weather Reporter — Pretend the ball is the sun, moon, or a storm cloud. Move it across the sky, hide it behind a pillow “cloud,” or make it “rain” by tapping it gently.

  • Ball Chef — Pretend the ball is an ingredient (dough, fruit, soup). Stir it in a bowl, “cut” it with a toy knife, or serve it on a plate. Invite the child to choose what you’re cooking next.

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